It wasn't until a year after my first experience with a woman that he and I had a talk. As it turned out during that same period of time he had an affair with a woman at his office. A lot of hidden and obvious things came out of both of us(including the fact that our bedroom was dead) and with it the acceptance. We still loved each other and we could make it work with some changes. The number one thing was to be honest with one another. I had no interest in other men, I knew after my first affair that I was without a doubt bisexual. It's been decades now, still in love and still married with a wonderful sex life. In almost every instance my girlfriends have been just that, MY GIRLFRIENDS not his There have been exceptions, but rarely. Out of the women I've been with only one was fully lesbian, most were curious or bisexual. I can honestly say that I have loved almost every woman I've been with but not the same kind of love I have towards my husband. I had told the lesbian before we started that I loved him and I would never leave him, which she said she could live with. But she fell in love with me and wanted me to leave him constantly. It was a mistake to enter into that relationship and it was not an easy parting. . There have been women that we have known for years and their husbands never knew. Including his sister. A few years ago, both in our 50s we began having sex. I can tell you that our sex life is much more fulfilling now and that my sex life is complete having the women I've had and have in my life! Ours was a unique situation which we were able to work out. And I do not recommend cheating of any sort. In my case I can say I probably would have never been with a woman that had the first woman ever seduced me and had a year long affair with her.(I should also include that she was married and he knew all about it). This video shows that the married woman was misleading the lesbian woman and they were planning things that probably would never happen. And again, I get the excitement of a secret affair. I know the adrenaline rush that can happen with it. Having this love interest who wants you and you want them. But the best policy is honesty with your spouse if it won't work then part ways if you can work it out and do so. But I can guarantee you it's always worse when it's secret.
It wasn't until a year after my first experience with a woman that he and I had a talk. As it turned out during that same period of time he had an affair with a woman at his office.
A lot of hidden and obvious things came out of both of us(including the fact that our bedroom was dead) and with it the acceptance. We still loved each other and we could make it work with some changes. The number one thing was to be honest with one another.
I had no interest in other men, I knew after my first affair that I was without a doubt bisexual.
It's been decades now, still in love and still married with a wonderful sex life. In almost every instance my girlfriends have been just that, MY GIRLFRIENDS not his There have been exceptions, but rarely. Out of the women I've been with only one was fully lesbian, most were curious or bisexual. I can honestly say that I have loved almost every woman I've been with but not the same kind of love I have towards my husband.
I had told the lesbian before we started that I loved him and I would never leave him, which she said she could live with. But she fell in love with me and wanted me to leave him constantly. It was a mistake to enter into that relationship and it was not an easy parting.
. There have been women that we have known for years and their husbands never knew. Including his sister. A few years ago, both in our 50s we began having sex.
I can tell you that our sex life is much more fulfilling now and that my sex life is complete having the women I've had and have in my life!
Ours was a unique situation which we were able to work out. And I do not recommend cheating of any sort. In my case I can say I probably would have never been with a woman that had the first woman ever seduced me and had a year long affair with her.(I should also include that she was married and he knew all about it).
This video shows that the married woman was misleading the lesbian woman and they were planning things that probably would never happen. And again, I get the excitement of a secret affair. I know the adrenaline rush that can happen with it. Having this love interest who wants you and you want them.
But the best policy is honesty with your spouse if it won't work then part ways if you can work it out and do so. But I can guarantee you it's always worse when it's secret.